5 Telling Signs That You Need To Homeschool Your Kid


It’s there. You see it everyday. Almost unmistakable. Something about that look in your child’s face screams of fatigue — not just the physical, but more importantly the emotional.

He is clearly stressed-out — and worse, for all the wrong reasons.

Your gut tells you that he isn’t exactly perfect fit for traditional school, but the risk-averse side of you wins the mental struggle — you push him harder and tell yourself (and your child), ‘it gets better’.

But instead, it gets worse. Everyday. It gets more and more stressful for your child, yourself — the entire family.

You don’t have to go through unnecessary stress.

It may be time to consider that highly-debated (and sometimes dreaded) ‘H’ word — Homeschooling.

What are the telltale signs that suggest that your child may be better off and even excel in homeschooling as opposed to traditional schools?

1. Your child’s safety/health is continuously under attack in school.

2. Your child learns better and faster on his own than with peers.

3. Your child is mentally/intellectually advanced yet not emotionally ready for cooperative learning in a traditional school setting.

4. Either/both parents are full-time homemakers (work-at-home setting) and the parent/s enjoy teaching their child.

5. You have a strong conviction that traditional schools only amplify your child’s inequities and diminish his innate abilities.

If you see your child’s situation meeting most if not all of these signs, then snap out of your ‘denial state’, accept the fact that not all kids are created equal and that the best education he can get is from the teacher from whom he came from, and learned much about the world in the first place — his parents.

If there’s no legal impediment to homeschool, then it must be good — for your child, your family — the country.


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Beware though, homeschooling — while an attractive idea and system — is not for every family. Much preparation, research and commitment must be done in order to successfully homeschool a growing child. But don’t fret, homeschooling and its wondrous rewards is God’s gift to parents and families who are up for the exciting challenge. Because more than an alternative form of education, it is a privilege (because of time/circumstantial reasons) only a few can enjoy.

Whether you choose to homeschool your child or not, at the end of the day, we all just want our kids to grow up happy and fulfilled in a safe and nurturing environment — and isn’t that what home is? :)

— @rjmarmol

18 responses to “5 Telling Signs That You Need To Homeschool Your Kid”

  1. I actually consider my child going to home schooling rather than the traditional school. but then the experience he will get from the socila environment can be a lot of help too.

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  2. If I had the time to homeschool my children… But it`s impossible. I have to send them to the common school.

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  3. I don’t have time to do that unfortunatly. Very nice article

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  4. Merci beaucoup pour toutes ces infos

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  5. It’s nice to review your kids lesson after schools to know if they were learned or not. It is also a timing to get bond with them on study.

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  6. Very nice review, but the experience from the social environment can’t be replaced

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  7. Nice review for kids. Keep posting this type of article.

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  8. I actually consider my child going to home schooling rather than the traditional school.because they are helpful for my baby’s development….

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  9. I’m sure it depends on what curriculum you choose. I don’t live in Missouri, but as far as I know I don’t think any states charge to homeschool – I don’t think that would be legal. Some states are more strict than others about requirements for homeschoolers though. There is probably some kind of independent support group in Missouri you could contact. If you can’t find that, you might try doing a Google search for the Homeschool Legal Defense Fund. They should have information about your state or who you could contact with your questions.

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  10. In France we have this probleme because the number of hours at school is very important… 8am to 17Pm!

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  11. I’ve been considering this idea for my 7 year old boy, he was assessed by many doctors and educators as a gifted child, his IQ is 4 years higher than his age, but when I sent him to school, he was not performing well. But I am still observing his condition and status in the classroom. Thanks for this article. It strengthen my desire to consider homeschooling for my boy.

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  12. School is important to socialize children… If you don’t do that you will create autists.

    @Marc
    Ps: In France, the probleme of hours is a reality; but it’s better than house school.

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  13. school is the second dwelling of the children where they met their friends and find new experiences and knowledge. it is one that teach the children other than their teacher in class.

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  14. Nice post.I have a daughter.I want her to get good education when she grows up.

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  15. As much as possible it is a important to home school our children to enlighten them the lessons they have not understand, and most of all it will strengthen the parent – children relationship.

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  17. I prefer for a child to go to school as the social aspects for a childs growth..

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  18. Thanks for the information. It is really nice..

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I’m RJ Marmol — writer, musician, and independent creator based in Manila.

I write songs, essays, and books about the messy overlap between money, overwhelm, creativity, identity, and rebuilding. Much of my work circles around what happens when life stops feeling manageable — and how we try to think clearly, make decisions, and keep moving anyway.

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While my catalogue began with intimate cover renditions, my work is increasingly being shaped by original writing, drawing from years of poems, lived questions, and emotional survival.

“Stuck Home Syndrome” released on March 20, 2026 is my first original 20-track album written during a period when time felt compressed and days began to blur into each other. The songs came from sitting with thoughts that had nowhere else to go — unfiltered, repetitive, and sometimes uncomfortable. It’s a concept album that isn’t built around singles or polish. It’s closer to a continuous inner monologue, recorded with minimal production and very little ornamentation and meant to be listened to as one cohesive body of work. The goal wasn’t to resolve anything, only to document how it felt while it was happening.

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