What does it mean to be free?


{ I write this two days short of a one month blog hiatus. Yes, I have returned — hardly-missed, I know, but I wouldn’t miss to write an independence day post for anything. My brain is hard-wired to write about independence day come hell or high water. :) }

One hundred and twelve years ago today, our forefathers proudly waved the Philippine flag to an equally proud and jubilant crowd in Kawit, Cavite. No other day before that seemed more important. It’s Independence Day. Nothing can possibly top that.

One hundred and twelve years after, not much has changed. Of course, people would harp on achieved ‘independence’, freedom, democracy — you know, all the big words. But apart from the obvious — our sovereignty, not much has been achieved in that area.

Which begs the question — what does it really mean to be free?

We’ve heard the rhetorics and seen the parade many times. It’s the same ‘celebration’ every year anyway. But when it comes to a deeper understanding of the essence of freedom and why it’s such a big deal, most people would rather not give it a thought.

If only more people understood what freedom is and how much sacrifice such luxury entailed, maybe they’d care enough to spare it some minutes of contemplation and gratefulness.

But like a spoiled child who’s been given everything he wants without a fight, negotiation or even a second thought, we’ve taken freedom for granted as if it were ‘free’ to begin with — as if it were our birthright to enjoy and squander at will.

Contrary to what most people think, freedom — whose root word is ‘free’ — is not something we were born with. It is not as free as the air we breathe. It is, like I always say, a luxury that comes at a steep price — a price we have the pleasure of only writing or talking about now simply because our brothers and sisters that have come before us did the ‘paying’ for us. It is a debt we owe to our forebears and a gift that we are expected to pass on to our descendants.

We are lucky to be bearers of such a sacred entity, borne of much suffering and patriotism. And compared to our great greats, our job is supposedly much easier.

But look around you. Look harder and weep. There is not much to bequeath. As the vessel of freedom has been passed on from generation to generation, much of its essence has been lost in translation.

Today, we have commercialized freedom and sold it as commodities. We claim that we are sovereign and yet we allow ourselves to be ‘short-changed’ by economic giants who dictate how they run their business on our shores when it’s supposed to be the other way around.

We let them mine our resources (natural and human) dry and even praise them for giving us ‘jobs’ and ‘investments’.

As a new administration is sworn in, jobs are promised in the form of ‘increased foreign investments’. We are more invested in pulling-in foreign investors instead of say, empowering the SMEs ( small to medium enterprises) and micro businesses with access to affordable financing schemes, fast and reliable government support through specialized agencies
and improved taxation to encourage businesses to register and use auditable receipts.

That is just one concrete example of freedom in action, of freedom as it relates to real life.

The days of fighting with bolos may be over. But every year, the fight for a modern yet simplistic form of freedom remains a struggle. It is heartwarming to see flag-waving ceremonies here and there but beyond the symbolic, there is a pressing battle we must win. The fight for freedom is a never-ending struggle. The battle gears may change, the strategy may be different, the soldiers may not be marchig to a similar tune — yet the goal remains the same: to win our freedom over and over again.

Because ‘to never rest’ — that is what it means to be free. And that is what it means to be Filipino.

Maligayang Araw ng Kalayaan!

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About Me
Cecilia Regina Aquino Blanquera Marmol aka RJ Marmol profile picture

I’m RJ Marmol — writer, musician, and independent creator based in Manila.

I write songs, essays, and books about the messy overlap between money, overwhelm, creativity, identity, and rebuilding. Much of my work circles around what happens when life stops feeling manageable — and how we try to think clearly, make decisions, and keep moving anyway.

I’m also the author of Rebuilding Under Debt: Thinking Clearly When Everything Is a Blur, a nonfiction book published under Steady Hand Press. The paperback edition is listed under my full publishing name, Cecilia Regina Aquino Blanquera.

On the music side, I release work as HeyRJ. On the writing side, this site is where I gather my books, essays, notes, and whatever I’m building next.

Music

HeyRJ is my sonic soul project. I create raw, minimalist-style and deeply personal music interpretations that feel like a late-night conversation with your truest self.

By blending lo-fi acoustic textures with poetic honesty, my work explores love, loss, grief, healing, and the quiet in-betweens of life. Each song is a letter — a journal entry — a gentle companion for when the world feels too loud or too quiet.

While my catalogue began with intimate cover renditions, my work is increasingly being shaped by original writing, drawing from years of poems, lived questions, and emotional survival.

“Stuck Home Syndrome” released on March 20, 2026 is my first original 20-track album written during a period when time felt compressed and days began to blur into each other. The songs came from sitting with thoughts that had nowhere else to go — unfiltered, repetitive, and sometimes uncomfortable. It’s a concept album that isn’t built around singles or polish. It’s closer to a continuous inner monologue, recorded with minimal production and very little ornamentation and meant to be listened to as one cohesive body of work. The goal wasn’t to resolve anything, only to document how it felt while it was happening.

On May 29, 2026 I released new original singles – “Rapturous”, “Uh Huh”, “Look At You”, “All That” and “Blew Print”. I continue to release both original and cover songs and intend to so for as long as I can so check back every once in a while — you might. just find something you’ll like.

For business inquiries relating to music, email me at: heyrjmusic[at]gmail[dot]com or my personal email at: rjmarmol[at]gmail[dot]com.

Books

Rebuilding Under Debt: Thinking Clearly When Everything Is a Blur

A nonfiction book about what debt does to the mind — and how to begin functioning again when financial stress has made everything feel blurred, urgent, and overwhelming.

Rather than treating debt only as a financial math problem, the book explores the emotional and cognitive realities of financial distress: shame, decision fatigue, avoidance, panic, relationship strain, and the difficulty of making sound decisions while mentally depleted.

Published under Steady Hand Press. It’s available worldwide in ebook and paperback formats on Amazon. Bookstores and libraries can also be order it wholesale via Ingram.

Contact

For book-related inquiries, media requests, bookstore questions, or discussion-group invitations, you can reach me through the contact page on this site or send me an email to rjmarmol[at]gmail[dot]com or hello[at]steadyhandpress.com