That abstract concept called “poverty”


Suddenly everyone claims to “have been poor”.

Suddenly it’s the best campaign slogan.

Suddenly being “poor” is “cool”.

You might actually think that the world has changed. But no, it hasn’t.

You might think that Philippine politics has changed. But no, it hasn’t.

On the contrary, it hasn’t changed nary a bit.

It’s always been like this during election period. Jingles. Slogans. The works.

The “vote-for-me-because-im-your-savior” sort of campaign posters haven’t changed in many, many years. And each time election nears, it only reminds us how bad our politicians fared before — how bad all of us somehow fared too.

Someone once said, we get what what we deserve — that we get what we give. If that is true, I wonder what sort of abominable creatures we have become to deserve such incompetent and devilish leaders. I wonder what kind of miser we have become to get these parasites cum predators. I cringe at that thought.

And so every time a squeaky clean, well-bred, royal “gened” politician hugs and carries a poor child — specially the “really” poor ones, I wonder what goes on in that politician’s mind.

I wonder.

There are those too smart to assert that one need not be “poor” or “have been poor” to know poverty. Wise guy, read this: You are so wrong.

But I’d like to give you the benefit of the doubt that you say that with good intentions, so sure, I’d give you that.

However, don’t expect everyone to just swallow your well-researched data and polished ruminations and shove it to minds that have once been empty save for the thought of the miracle of sustenance.

I speak for the 24% or so people who think of themselves poor because they have at least once in a month’s period gone hungry because they have nothing to eat. I speak for those people who pin their hopes eternally on a well-run government who will make life a little easier for them — and by easier I mean they won’t go hungry unless they’re just plain lazy. I speak for them because I was once like them. I speak for them because they cannot speak for themselves, because they can’t blog, or even write — because most of them as I write this are delirious in utter hunger.

They’re not the kind you see on TV or infomercials. They’re not the kind who join the ranks of those in armed struggle like that lovely, brave girl Kimay. They’re not the kind who march under the unforgiving heat of the sun holding up placards that try to
express on a small square space the kind of suffering and injustice they endure. These people have means of expressing themselves. They either have time or talent or both. I do not speak for these people.

I speak and write for those who suffer hunger silently, without a tear on their cheeks, without a sound or hint of the incomprehensible pain they feel, without a glint of desperation in their eyes, without a word from their dried lips. To them, living life “a day at a time” is no mere motto. To say that they “die trying” is not figurative.

Senator Manny Villar’s latest campaign jingle “Naging Mahirap” is under fire and derision from a whole range of people.
They don’t get the message because it’s not “cool”. They have no plans of wearing a “Naging Mahirap” shirt, oh no sir. It’s way cooler to wear a shirt with that iconic yellow ribbon that says “change”. Now that — that to them is cool. They sneer at the commercial because it’s “uncomfortable” to talk about “swimming in a sea of garbage” or spending Christmas in the streets because you don’t have a home or that the streets just happen to be your home.

They do not want to talk about the message. They’d rather throw mud on the “have been poor” and now real-estate billionaire Manny Villar saying he’s never been “that” poor. Maybe they’re right. As far as I know, Villar didn’t swim in a sea of garbage or spent Christmas on the streets because he didn’t have a home — he had in fact, a house, albeit a small one, a complete family, but then, he grew up in Tondo, Manila, a poor among the poor — poor enough if you are to compare him with the rest of the well-bred and inbred candidates. And if only for that, he does talk about and campaign about the kind of poverty he lived — the same kind he understood. The same kind he hopes to solve.

I am not saying you should vote for Villar. I tried to do that back then but ended up being disappointed, thanks to WowoWillie.

But I am saying do not be so insensitively smart to spread as gospel truth your presumed logical assertions that one need not be poor or “have been poor” to understand poverty.

Poverty is an abstract concept. It does not have the probability and exactness of Mathematics or the intricacies of other sciences. Poverty is a concept well-understood only if “lived” or experienced. After all, even the sciences are anchored on and necessitated by experiences.

You say you see the poor and feel pity for them? That’s not understanding poverty. That’s no more than sympathy.

You say if you were in their shoes, you’d know exactly how they feel? That not understanding poverty. That’s nothing but empathy.

If telling the truth is so convenient, why do most people lie? Because, guess what, it’s not.

So I will tell you this, and all you smart people who never knew poverty through a growling stomach or a skull-cracking
headache, read and understand: YOU NEED TO BE POOR OR HAVE BEEN POOR TO TRULY UNDERSTAND POVERTY. Statistics don’t even come close to describing what it’s like to live in dire poverty. Words cannot even be minced enough to come up with a better and comprehensive description of poverty.

I may not know a lot, but this I’m sure. I know because I have been one myself. And I can tell you one thing: Poverty is not cool. It never was.

6 responses to “That abstract concept called “poverty””

  1. I also do not understand this type of campaign…

    I will bet money that these people have never in their lives experienced what it is like to go to bed hungry night after night.

    Even if they have…how will that help us get out of that predicament? How will their show of empathy make us better or put food on our tables?

    Healthy Eating

    Like

  2. I absolutely agree. Playing on the "poor" image is so below the belt and shows how much in need one has to be to delve into this form of tactic to garner votes. At the state our country is in, we are all swimming in a sea of trash and we're not proud of it!

    Like

  3. The concept about assuming that the word God alone is enough in the public square to express yourself is changing. The concept as described above about forming a sacred bond by taking vows before God is perhaps turning into the perjorative at the moment no matter how much cash and Public Relations reinforcement of religious medieval concepts is going on in the present world.

    Like

  4. Amen to that!! how do we change it? how??
    I am with you and just would love to do something about it!
    Tess

    My recent post Wedding Themes

    Like

  5. If everyone decides to help. We can make changes.

    //J

    Like

  6. Search Optimisation Avatar
    Search Optimisation

    We are not the almighty but we are the humans.We will change the world by our strength. Y we trying to change others we will change ourself .

    Like

Let me know what you think… :)

This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed.

About Me
Cecilia Regina Aquino Blanquera Marmol aka RJ Marmol profile picture

I’m RJ Marmol — writer, musician, and independent creator based in Manila.

I write songs, essays, and books about the messy overlap between money, overwhelm, creativity, identity, and rebuilding. Much of my work circles around what happens when life stops feeling manageable — and how we try to think clearly, make decisions, and keep moving anyway.

I’m also the author of Rebuilding Under Debt: Thinking Clearly When Everything Is a Blur, a nonfiction book published under Steady Hand Press. The paperback edition is listed under my full publishing name, Cecilia Regina Aquino Blanquera.

On the music side, I release work as HeyRJ. On the writing side, this site is where I gather my books, essays, notes, and whatever I’m building next.

Music

HeyRJ is my sonic soul project. I create raw, minimalist-style and deeply personal music interpretations that feel like a late-night conversation with your truest self.

By blending lo-fi acoustic textures with poetic honesty, my work explores love, loss, grief, healing, and the quiet in-betweens of life. Each song is a letter — a journal entry — a gentle companion for when the world feels too loud or too quiet.

While my catalogue began with intimate cover renditions, my work is increasingly being shaped by original writing, drawing from years of poems, lived questions, and emotional survival.

“Stuck Home Syndrome” released on March 20, 2026 is my first original 20-track album written during a period when time felt compressed and days began to blur into each other. The songs came from sitting with thoughts that had nowhere else to go — unfiltered, repetitive, and sometimes uncomfortable. It’s a concept album that isn’t built around singles or polish. It’s closer to a continuous inner monologue, recorded with minimal production and very little ornamentation and meant to be listened to as one cohesive body of work. The goal wasn’t to resolve anything, only to document how it felt while it was happening.

On May 29, 2026 I released new original singles – “Rapturous”, “Uh Huh”, “Look At You”, “All That” and “Blew Print”. I continue to release both original and cover songs and intend to so for as long as I can so check back every once in a while — you might. just find something you’ll like.

For business inquiries relating to music, email me at: heyrjmusic[at]gmail[dot]com or my personal email at: rjmarmol[at]gmail[dot]com.

Books

Rebuilding Under Debt: Thinking Clearly When Everything Is a Blur

A nonfiction book about what debt does to the mind — and how to begin functioning again when financial stress has made everything feel blurred, urgent, and overwhelming.

Rather than treating debt only as a financial math problem, the book explores the emotional and cognitive realities of financial distress: shame, decision fatigue, avoidance, panic, relationship strain, and the difficulty of making sound decisions while mentally depleted.

Published under Steady Hand Press. It’s available worldwide in ebook and paperback formats on Amazon. Bookstores and libraries can also be order it wholesale via Ingram.

Contact

For book-related inquiries, media requests, bookstore questions, or discussion-group invitations, you can reach me through the contact page on this site or send me an email to rjmarmol[at]gmail[dot]com or hello[at]steadyhandpress.com