The Year That Was: A Look Back at 2008 — The Wonderful, The Woeful and The Wishful ( “A Day In The Life Of RJ” 2008 Year-End Post)


We’re only a few days away from 2009. As we bid adieu to 2008, let us look back at a few (or at least those I can still remember) of the significant events that changed the course of our future — as a nation, as a race or maybe even as a person.

The Wonderful:

Manny Pacquiao winning over Oscar Dela Hoya. But more than that, it’s Manny Pacquiao’s success in competing with himself — his expectations, his challenges, his goals and his dream. Not many people can do that.

The Woeful:

Melamine in your child’s milk? Sounds more like a plot taken from a wicked and twisted horror story, but no, it’s as real as poisonous lead on your child’s toy or a ghost singer for the olympics opening song number. I actually bought the idea that the US was just being extra strict with China because it sees the used-to-be-sleeping-but-now-awake-giant as a steep economic competitor. But as the months progressed, I knew I was wrong to buy that idea in the first place. Something is seriously screwed-up there. And someone better do some spring-cleaning if only to regain the world’s trust on their products.

Earthquakes here and there. Floods. Shipwrecks. Wild fires. Terrorist attacks. Pretty much the same as those of last year’s. What do you know, history does repeat itself — many times.

TIME Magazine’s “Person of the Year” is US President-Elect Barack Obama. There is too much hype about this now and I think I couldn’t add anything more. His triumph has definitely changed (for the better) the way the world sees US politics. That sweeping success brought about renewed faith and hope not only in American soil but the world over. Barack’s win is monumental not only because of his race or his character but also because of the way this last election has altered the way campaigns are done. New media — social media has proved all too promising — and in this case — worth all the effort and money spent on.

Here in the Philippines, we are but less than 2 years away from our Presidential elections — hopefully a promising one as well, if not as successful. Just the idea that it could be a genuinely “clean” elections is enough to give me goosebumps. In a country leading the surveys as among the most corrupt in the world, I suppose we can all agree that it would take a miracle for a 100% honest election to happen –and that’s just for starters. The course taken by the winning politician’s reign is a different story altogether.

The RCBC bank massacre in Cabuyao, Laguna — mass execution — killing defenseless bank employees in cold blood — acts that bespeak of evil in it’s most evil form — if there is such a thing. Who could ever forget that? The recent Paranaque shoot-out that killed unwitting civilians — incidents that prove that while “intel” is proving useful to the police, it actually needs “intelligent” people to make something good out of it like saving lives, and not killing innocent ones. Sometimes you wonder whether these people are just careless, panicky or plain trigger-happy. Whatever the reason, the damage has been done and there’s no taking it back. Successful investigations and delivery of justice can’t exactly bring the dead back, can it? It should have been prevented in the first place because it can be. But true to form, the police never seem to learn — or maybe they just don’t want to.

Scandals. We can never get enough of scandals. It makes for an interesting conversation over coffee, in print, on TV, in blogs and well, even in government offices that squander away taxpayers’ hard-earned money. NBN-ZTE broadband deal, Joc-Joc Bolante and the fertilizer scam, the junked BJE-MOA, the moves for Charter Change, the controversial Reproductive Health Bill, yada yada yada.

The Wishful:

Come to think about it. “The year that was” is not so different from the year that was 2 years ago or the one 3 years ago. “The year that was” just keeps on repeating itself like a broken record, like a circular path naively traversed, like a curse being cast year after year, like a nightmare relived over and over. Sure, the system is flawed. That’s a given. And sure, the people who run this government have beating hearts as black as coal (or even darker than that, who can really say?). But unless we look into our own hearts — re-examine, re-evaluate and act as called for by the times, “the year that was” will sure as hell be the year “that will be” ad infinitum. Are you enjoying this merry-go-round we’re in? If you are, then by all means, stay. If you aren’t, then by all means change.

About Me
Cecilia Regina Aquino Blanquera Marmol aka RJ Marmol profile picture

I’m RJ Marmol — writer, musician, and independent creator based in Manila.

I write songs, essays, and books about the messy overlap between money, overwhelm, creativity, identity, and rebuilding. Much of my work circles around what happens when life stops feeling manageable — and how we try to think clearly, make decisions, and keep moving anyway.

I’m also the author of Rebuilding Under Debt: Thinking Clearly When Everything Is a Blur, a nonfiction book published under Steady Hand Press. The paperback edition is listed under my full publishing name, Cecilia Regina Aquino Blanquera.

On the music side, I release work as HeyRJ. On the writing side, this site is where I gather my books, essays, notes, and whatever I’m building next.

Music

HeyRJ is my sonic soul project. I create raw, minimalist-style and deeply personal music interpretations that feel like a late-night conversation with your truest self.

By blending lo-fi acoustic textures with poetic honesty, my work explores love, loss, grief, healing, and the quiet in-betweens of life. Each song is a letter — a journal entry — a gentle companion for when the world feels too loud or too quiet.

While my catalogue began with intimate cover renditions, my work is increasingly being shaped by original writing, drawing from years of poems, lived questions, and emotional survival.

“Stuck Home Syndrome” released on March 20, 2026 is my first original 20-track album written during a period when time felt compressed and days began to blur into each other. The songs came from sitting with thoughts that had nowhere else to go — unfiltered, repetitive, and sometimes uncomfortable. It’s a concept album that isn’t built around singles or polish. It’s closer to a continuous inner monologue, recorded with minimal production and very little ornamentation and meant to be listened to as one cohesive body of work. The goal wasn’t to resolve anything, only to document how it felt while it was happening.

On May 29, 2026 I released new original singles – “Rapturous”, “Uh Huh”, “Look At You”, “All That” and “Blew Print”. I continue to release both original and cover songs and intend to so for as long as I can so check back every once in a while — you might. just find something you’ll like.

For business inquiries relating to music, email me at: heyrjmusic[at]gmail[dot]com or my personal email at: rjmarmol[at]gmail[dot]com.

Books

Rebuilding Under Debt: Thinking Clearly When Everything Is a Blur

A nonfiction book about what debt does to the mind — and how to begin functioning again when financial stress has made everything feel blurred, urgent, and overwhelming.

Rather than treating debt only as a financial math problem, the book explores the emotional and cognitive realities of financial distress: shame, decision fatigue, avoidance, panic, relationship strain, and the difficulty of making sound decisions while mentally depleted.

Published under Steady Hand Press. It’s available worldwide in ebook and paperback formats on Amazon. Bookstores and libraries can also be order it wholesale via Ingram.

Contact

For book-related inquiries, media requests, bookstore questions, or discussion-group invitations, you can reach me through the contact page on this site or send me an email to rjmarmol[at]gmail[dot]com or hello[at]steadyhandpress.com