Today is World AIDS Day


Fact: There are 33 million people living with HIV worldwide.

Support World AIDS Day

My friends, today, December 1, is World AIDS Day. And as a human being who has so much love for the entire human race, I urge you to:

  • Tirelessly spread awareness among friends, colleagues and family about HIV/AIDS.
  • Show love, respect and support to all people living with HIV/AIDS.
  • Love yourself. Safe sex is everyone’s responsibility.
  • Don’t use drugs, specially those that utilize syringes that are shared.

33 million is a huge number — it’s no joke. Don’t let yourself be part of the statistics. BE RESPONSIBLE.

Know the facts about HIV/AIDS and let’s all stop the prejudice on people living with HIV/AIDS.

Today is World AIDS Day. Let us remember all those who suffer in silence, the innocent victims, those people whose dreams and plans of a bright future were shattered by such an unforgiving disease. But most of all, let this be a plea for understanding and compassion. We all know that HIV/AIDS in itself is difficult enough to deal with, but more than the disease itself, it is the stigma attached to infected people that force them to suffer in silence, refuse or shun treatment if they even come-out in the open at all.

Judge not, so as not to be judged. Regardless of the circumstances, they are all victims of a disease. Despise the disease, not the afflicted. There is no certainty in life. You’ll never know when you might need help yourself.

About Me
Cecilia Regina Aquino Blanquera Marmol aka RJ Marmol profile picture

I’m RJ Marmol — writer, musician, and independent creator based in Manila.

I write songs, essays, and books about the messy overlap between money, overwhelm, creativity, identity, and rebuilding. Much of my work circles around what happens when life stops feeling manageable — and how we try to think clearly, make decisions, and keep moving anyway.

I’m also the author of Rebuilding Under Debt: Thinking Clearly When Everything Is a Blur, a nonfiction book published under Steady Hand Press. The paperback edition is listed under my full publishing name, Cecilia Regina Aquino Blanquera.

On the music side, I release work as HeyRJ. On the writing side, this site is where I gather my books, essays, notes, and whatever I’m building next.

Music

HeyRJ is my sonic soul project. I create raw, minimalist-style and deeply personal music interpretations that feel like a late-night conversation with your truest self.

By blending lo-fi acoustic textures with poetic honesty, my work explores love, loss, grief, healing, and the quiet in-betweens of life. Each song is a letter — a journal entry — a gentle companion for when the world feels too loud or too quiet.

While my catalogue began with intimate cover renditions, my work is increasingly being shaped by original writing, drawing from years of poems, lived questions, and emotional survival.

“Stuck Home Syndrome” released on March 20, 2026 is my first original 20-track album written during a period when time felt compressed and days began to blur into each other. The songs came from sitting with thoughts that had nowhere else to go — unfiltered, repetitive, and sometimes uncomfortable. It’s a concept album that isn’t built around singles or polish. It’s closer to a continuous inner monologue, recorded with minimal production and very little ornamentation and meant to be listened to as one cohesive body of work. The goal wasn’t to resolve anything, only to document how it felt while it was happening.

On May 29, 2026 I released new original singles – “Rapturous”, “Uh Huh”, “Look At You”, “All That” and “Blew Print”. I continue to release both original and cover songs and intend to so for as long as I can so check back every once in a while — you might. just find something you’ll like.

For business inquiries relating to music, email me at: heyrjmusic[at]gmail[dot]com or my personal email at: rjmarmol[at]gmail[dot]com.

Books

Rebuilding Under Debt: Thinking Clearly When Everything Is a Blur

A nonfiction book about what debt does to the mind — and how to begin functioning again when financial stress has made everything feel blurred, urgent, and overwhelming.

Rather than treating debt only as a financial math problem, the book explores the emotional and cognitive realities of financial distress: shame, decision fatigue, avoidance, panic, relationship strain, and the difficulty of making sound decisions while mentally depleted.

Published under Steady Hand Press. It’s available worldwide in ebook and paperback formats on Amazon. Bookstores and libraries can also be order it wholesale via Ingram.

Contact

For book-related inquiries, media requests, bookstore questions, or discussion-group invitations, you can reach me through the contact page on this site or send me an email to rjmarmol[at]gmail[dot]com or hello[at]steadyhandpress.com