There’s No Easy Way: Peace and Its Price


There is nothing easier than lopping off heads and nothing harder than developing ideas.” — Fyodor Dostoevsky

I like to believe that people in the long run are going to do more to promote peace than our governments. Indeed, I think that people want peace so much that one of these days governments had better get out of their way and let them have it.

Wars are seldom caused by spontaneous hatreds between people, for peoples in general are too ignorant of one another to have grievances and too indifferent to what goes on beyond their borders to plan conquests. They must be urged to the slaughter by politicians who know how to alarm them.” Henry Mencken

There is no such thing as a good war and there is no such thing as a bad peace.” Benjamin Franklin

Short-circuiting the long-established principles of patient negotiation leads to war, not peace.” Jimmy Carter

I miss the good old days — when things weren’t as complicated as they are now. It seemed rather peaceful then (or so I thought). Fact is, the world in general has not been truly peaceful at any time. Wars are as constant as change. And this world has seen one too many wars. There will always be small wars fought in certain parts of the world for all sorts of reason. I think humankind has a penchant for wars — probably part of what makes us human — to be hostile at times when certain boundaries are crossed.

We’ve even had our share of conflicts to deal with. It only seemed peaceful then because I was younger, and consequently didn’t realize that we were at war or that the dictator President Marcos has caused many Filipinos to die fighting for what they believe in or in their attempt for the preservation of their basic human rights.

What does it take to achieve peace, the long-term if not the “forever” kind? You know what I think? I think all it takes for real, long-lasting peace to prevail is for people in power to genuinely “commit” themselves to its fulfillment — to its realization. Militarization, political solutions and what-have-you’s, there is a solution out there. And it’s not the solution that’s absent rather the “resolve” to do what it takes to get the peace process going. It’s not so much a question of mechanism rather a question of the kind of people behind it.

I want peace. Mindanaoans want peace. Visayans want peace. Tagalogs want peace. Lumads want peace.

And I have not known anyone who wants otherwise. It is a basic instinct of human beings to want harmony. So why can’t we have peace? Because just as we generally want harmony, we are also inclined to protect ourselves and our interests — survival instinct that almost always go overboard. And this is where the conflict starts. So unless we rise above our “survival instincts”, peace will always be elusive.

Peace is not free. It has a price. And there is no chance in hell we will get it if no one is willing to pay.

2 responses to “There’s No Easy Way: Peace and Its Price”

  1. Everyone wants peace.. I just hope I´m around to see the day it happens. I don´t think there will ever be peace in the World though… it´s just the way some humans seem to be made.Lena

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    chen-ming-hui

    it’s good topic , there is no peace in Libya ,hope their life will get better soon ,no war in their country . and there is no war in country ….everywhere is peace …..everyone has to think how to get our world peace . …
    Stone Island

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I’m RJ Marmol — writer, musician, and independent creator based in Manila.

I write songs, essays, and books about the messy overlap between money, overwhelm, creativity, identity, and rebuilding. Much of my work circles around what happens when life stops feeling manageable — and how we try to think clearly, make decisions, and keep moving anyway.

I’m also the author of Rebuilding Under Debt: Thinking Clearly When Everything Is a Blur, a nonfiction book published under Steady Hand Press. The paperback edition is listed under my full publishing name, Cecilia Regina Aquino Blanquera.

On the music side, I release work as HeyRJ. On the writing side, this site is where I gather my books, essays, notes, and whatever I’m building next.

Music

HeyRJ is my sonic soul project. I create raw, minimalist-style and deeply personal music interpretations that feel like a late-night conversation with your truest self.

By blending lo-fi acoustic textures with poetic honesty, my work explores love, loss, grief, healing, and the quiet in-betweens of life. Each song is a letter — a journal entry — a gentle companion for when the world feels too loud or too quiet.

While my catalogue began with intimate cover renditions, my work is increasingly being shaped by original writing, drawing from years of poems, lived questions, and emotional survival.

“Stuck Home Syndrome” released on March 20, 2026 is my first original 20-track album written during a period when time felt compressed and days began to blur into each other. The songs came from sitting with thoughts that had nowhere else to go — unfiltered, repetitive, and sometimes uncomfortable. It’s a concept album that isn’t built around singles or polish. It’s closer to a continuous inner monologue, recorded with minimal production and very little ornamentation and meant to be listened to as one cohesive body of work. The goal wasn’t to resolve anything, only to document how it felt while it was happening.

On May 29, 2026 I released new original singles – “Rapturous”, “Uh Huh”, “Look At You”, “All That” and “Blew Print”. I continue to release both original and cover songs and intend to so for as long as I can so check back every once in a while — you might. just find something you’ll like.

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Books

Rebuilding Under Debt: Thinking Clearly When Everything Is a Blur

A nonfiction book about what debt does to the mind — and how to begin functioning again when financial stress has made everything feel blurred, urgent, and overwhelming.

Rather than treating debt only as a financial math problem, the book explores the emotional and cognitive realities of financial distress: shame, decision fatigue, avoidance, panic, relationship strain, and the difficulty of making sound decisions while mentally depleted.

Published under Steady Hand Press. It’s available worldwide in ebook and paperback formats on Amazon. Bookstores and libraries can also be order it wholesale via Ingram.

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