Switching Holi-dates


I don’t even remember exactly when PGMA started out this so-called “holiday economics“. All I can remember is that I sneered at it the first time I heard of it. I bet even Saint Valentine would refuse to have the well-celebrated Valentine’s Day be moved to the closest weekend each year.

And if Valentine’s Day — which is technically not even considered a regular holiday is not worthy of being “moved”, moreso on our regular holidays. As you may know, our regular holidays are mainly those that have significant, historical and sentimental value to us as a country. That said, it is only proper that we hold on to that tradition. While it may be true that long weekends make people go on out-of-town vacations and thereby spend more — which in turn help our economy, i don’t think that’s enough reason for us to do this at the expense of our long-held reverence for our holidays and the people/event these holidays represent.

One particular holiday I hold dear to my heart is the Philippine Independence Day. This year, it has been very frustrating to celebrate it on a different day. Many of the people I know aren’t even aware of the “new” date when it came. But more frustrating than this is that when the “true” date came, they were so occupied with work and all things mundane that they were totally oblivious that it was June 12. Apparently, switching holi-dates is more damaging than anyone else assumes. You switch holi-dates and you make people forget the holiday altogether. You make them go on vacation on a different date, and go to  work on the exact date. What do you expect to happen then? Bingo. Lost patriotism and sense of nationalism. If that ain’t a tragedy, I don’t know what one is.

Tomorrow is no exception. And so you ask, what do you mean tomorrow? What’s tomorrow’s holiday for? See. Exactly my point. As if it’s not difficult enough for some people to remember that August 21, 1983 was the exact date that Benigno “Ninoy” Aquino was shot at the airport on his return from exile in the U.S. Switching holi-dates, certainly, do not help those people already suffering from “selective holiday amnesia”. To remember the holi-date is to remember what it’s for. And to switch it to another date is to kill the spirit of the holiday and to pour water on the few dying embers of nationalism and patriotism.

It is disappointing.

With that, I would like to make clear, that as protest against the “holiday economics“, I will write my tribute post “Remembering Ninoy” on August 21. I refuse to do it tomorrow. I refuse to ride this “cool” and “economically-motivated” guidelines. Instead of toying with the dates, why can’t this governent come up with significant economic reforms instead. Most of these holidays were already here long before we were born or even before PGMA became President. Show some respect. Leave the holi-dates alone.

About Me
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I’m RJ Marmol — writer, musician, and independent creator based in Manila.

I write songs, essays, and books about the messy overlap between money, overwhelm, creativity, identity, and rebuilding. Much of my work circles around what happens when life stops feeling manageable — and how we try to think clearly, make decisions, and keep moving anyway.

I’m also the author of Rebuilding Under Debt: Thinking Clearly When Everything Is a Blur, a nonfiction book published under Steady Hand Press. The paperback edition is listed under my full publishing name, Cecilia Regina Aquino Blanquera.

On the music side, I release work as HeyRJ. On the writing side, this site is where I gather my books, essays, notes, and whatever I’m building next.

Music

HeyRJ is my sonic soul project. I create raw, minimalist-style and deeply personal music interpretations that feel like a late-night conversation with your truest self.

By blending lo-fi acoustic textures with poetic honesty, my work explores love, loss, grief, healing, and the quiet in-betweens of life. Each song is a letter — a journal entry — a gentle companion for when the world feels too loud or too quiet.

While my catalogue began with intimate cover renditions, my work is increasingly being shaped by original writing, drawing from years of poems, lived questions, and emotional survival.

“Stuck Home Syndrome” released on March 20, 2026 is my first original 20-track album written during a period when time felt compressed and days began to blur into each other. The songs came from sitting with thoughts that had nowhere else to go — unfiltered, repetitive, and sometimes uncomfortable. It’s a concept album that isn’t built around singles or polish. It’s closer to a continuous inner monologue, recorded with minimal production and very little ornamentation and meant to be listened to as one cohesive body of work. The goal wasn’t to resolve anything, only to document how it felt while it was happening.

On May 29, 2026 I released new original singles – “Rapturous”, “Uh Huh”, “Look At You”, “All That” and “Blew Print”. I continue to release both original and cover songs and intend to so for as long as I can so check back every once in a while — you might. just find something you’ll like.

For business inquiries relating to music, email me at: heyrjmusic[at]gmail[dot]com or my personal email at: rjmarmol[at]gmail[dot]com.

Books

Rebuilding Under Debt: Thinking Clearly When Everything Is a Blur

A nonfiction book about what debt does to the mind — and how to begin functioning again when financial stress has made everything feel blurred, urgent, and overwhelming.

Rather than treating debt only as a financial math problem, the book explores the emotional and cognitive realities of financial distress: shame, decision fatigue, avoidance, panic, relationship strain, and the difficulty of making sound decisions while mentally depleted.

Published under Steady Hand Press. It’s available worldwide in ebook and paperback formats on Amazon. Bookstores and libraries can also be order it wholesale via Ingram.

Contact

For book-related inquiries, media requests, bookstore questions, or discussion-group invitations, you can reach me through the contact page on this site or send me an email to rjmarmol[at]gmail[dot]com or hello[at]steadyhandpress.com