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Fragile Peace? Say It Isn't So.

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A few hours after writing my last post dreading the thought of the slightest hint of tension and chaos that may be spurred by the seemingly fragile peace negotiations relating to the Bangsamoro Juridical Entity (JBE) MOA on Ancestral Domain, the idea of such an event — although an acknowledged possibility, has been, to my mind, rather remote and too speculative. And that is precisely why I dismissed the idea instantly without second thoughts about it whatsoever.

It is therefore, almost surreal to me that news of such a tension popped out of my Google feed reader on a casual hit of the “refresh” button. As if the Defense Secretary Gilberto Teodoro Jr. and Interior Secretary Ronaldo Puno‘s announcement of the 24-hour deadline for the Moro Islamic Liberation Front (MILF) to leave nine villages that they had occupied in North Cotabato province (the deadline of which will expire at 10 a.m. Friday) isn’t alarming enough, the news about “a problem with local armed groups, citing reports that 400 members of civilian volunteer organizations (CVOs) were bearing firearms and moving around the occupied villages” is enough to make us conclude that we tread on “fragile peace” ground.

A rush of news about this came pouring in afterwards. PGMA ordered the Department of National Defense (DND) and Department of Interior and Local Government (DILG) to talk to North Cotabato officials. All the while, the MILF continues to deny so called “incursions” in North Cotabato. While PGMA assures the OIC (Organization on Islamic Conference) envoys that there is nothing to worry about.

In the face of all this, the Supreme Court (SC) expressed no fear whatsoever of MILF’s threat to withdraw from peace talks. AFP Chief General Alexander Yano confirmed that “armed conflict is possible if the deadline is not met” while assuring that the situation is “not that heated“.

But if you look at it, “according to North Cotabato Governor Jesus Sacdalan, three women were killed and two other civilians were wounded, while 82 houses were burned over the last two weeks in the nine remote villages in five towns of his province.”

Taking this into consideration, plus the fact that these events started since the TRO was issued by the Supreme Court, is enough sign that we’re in for the difficult task of doing a balancing act. Peace on the one hand, and war on the other. As expected, it appears to be more complicated than we thought it would be.

There is a spark of hope, however. Press Secretary Jesus Dureza announced the good news that “in the five barangay [villages] presently occupied [by the MILF], we have now establi<p style=”text-align: left;” mce_style=”text-align: left;”>A few hours after writing my last post <b><a href=”http://adayinthelifeofrj.com/2008/08/lets-begin/&#8221; mce_href=”http://adayinthelifeofrj.com/2008/08/lets-begin/&#8221; target=”_self”>dreading the thought of the slightest hint of tension and chaos</a></b> that may be spurred by the seemingly fragile peace negotiations relating to the <a href=”http://adayinthelifeofrj.com/2008/08/beginners-guide-to-understanding-bangsa-moro-judirical-entity-bje-moa-ad/&#8221; mce_href=”http://adayinthelifeofrj.com/2008/08/beginners-guide-to-understanding-bangsa-moro-judirical-entity-bje-moa-ad/&#8221; target=”_self”><b>B</b></a><b><a href=”http://adayinthelifeofrj.com/2008/08/beginners-guide-to-understanding-bangsa-moro-judirical-entity-bje-moa-ad/&#8221; mce_href=”http://adayinthelifeofrj.com/2008/08/beginners-guide-to-understanding-bangsa-moro-judirical-entity-bje-moa-ad/&#8221; target=”_self”>angsamoro Juridical Entity (JBE) MOA on Ancestral Domain</a></b>, the idea of such an event — although an acknowledged possibility, has been, to my mind, rather remote and too speculative. And that is precisely why I dismissed the idea instantly without second thoughts about it whatsoever.</p> <p style=”text-align: left;” mce_style=”text-align: left;”>It is therefore, almost surreal to me that news of such a tension popped out of my Google feed reader on a casual hit of the “refresh” button. As if <img src=”http://adayinthelifeofrj.com/wp-includes/js/tinymce/plugins/wordpress/img/trans.gif&#8221; mce_src=”http://adayinthelifeofrj.com/wp-includes/js/tinymce/plugins/wordpress/img/trans.gif&#8221; alt=”” class=”mceWPmore mceItemNoResize” title=”More…” /> the Defense Secretary <b>Gilberto Teodoro Jr</b>. and Interior Secretary <b>Ronaldo Puno</b>’s <b><a href=”http://newsinfo.inquirer.net/breakingnews/nation/view/20080807-153178/MILF-given-24-hours-to-leave-areas-forcibly-taken-in-ARMM&#8221; mce_href=”http://newsinfo.inquirer.net/breakingnews/nation/view/20080807-153178/MILF-given-24-hours-to-leave-areas-forcibly-taken-in-ARMM&#8221; target=”_blank”>announcement of the 24-hour deadline for the Moro Islamic Liberation Front (MILF) to leave nine villages that they had occupied in North Cotabato province</a></b> (the deadline of which will <b>expire at 10 a.m. Friday</b>) isn’t alarming enough, the news about “<b>a problem with local armed groups, citing reports that 400 members of civilian volunteer organizations (CVOs) were bearing firearms and moving around the occupied villages</b>” is enough to make us conclude that we tread on “fragile peace” ground.</p> <p style=”text-align: left;” mce_style=”text-align: left;”>A rush of news about this came pouring in afterwards. <b><a href=”http://newsinfo.inquirer.net/breakingnews/nation/view/20080807-153189/Arroyo-orders-DILG-DND-to-talk-to-N-Cotabato-officials&#8221; mce_href=”http://newsinfo.inquirer.net/breakingnews/nation/view/20080807-153189/Arroyo-orders-DILG-DND-to-talk-to-N-Cotabato-officials&#8221; target=”_blank”>PGMA ordered the Department of National Defense (DND) and Department of Interior and Local Government (DILG) to talk to North Cotabato officials</a></b>. All the while, the <b><a href=”http://newsinfo.inquirer.net/breakingnews/nation/view/20080807-153233/MILF-denies-incursions-in-North-Cotabato&#8221; mce_href=”http://newsinfo.inquirer.net/breakingnews/nation/view/20080807-153233/MILF-denies-incursions-in-North-Cotabato&#8221; target=”_blank”>MILF continues to deny so called “incursions” in North Cotabato</a></b>. While <b>PGMA</b> assures the <b>OIC</b> (<b>Organization on Islamic Conference</b>) envoys that <b><a href=”http://newsinfo.inquirer.net/breakingnews/nation/view/20080807-153242/OIC-envoys-told-nothing-to-be-jittery-about-24-hr-deadline&#8221; mce_href=”http://newsinfo.inquirer.net/breakingnews/nation/view/20080807-153242/OIC-envoys-told-nothing-to-be-jittery-about-24-hr-deadline&#8221; target=”_blank”>there is nothing to worry about</a></b>.</p> <p style=”text-align: left;” mce_style=”text-align: left;”>In the face of all this, the <b><a href=”http://newsinfo.inquirer.net/breakingnews/nation/view/20080807-153247/SC-unfazed-by-MILF-threat-to-withdraw-from-peace-talks&#8221; mce_href=”http://newsinfo.inquirer.net/breakingnews/nation/view/20080807-153247/SC-unfazed-by-MILF-threat-to-withdraw-from-peace-talks&#8221; target=”_blank”>Supreme Court</a></b><a href=”http://newsinfo.inquirer.net/breakingnews/nation/view/20080807-153247/SC-unfazed-by-MILF-threat-to-withdraw-from-peace-talks&#8221; mce_href=”http://newsinfo.inquirer.net/breakingnews/nation/view/20080807-153247/SC-unfazed-by-MILF-threat-to-withdraw-from-peace-talks&#8221; target=”_blank”> (</a><b><a href=”http://newsinfo.inquirer.net/breakingnews/nation/view/20080807-153247/SC-unfazed-by-MILF-threat-to-withdraw-from-peace-talks&#8221; mce_href=”http://newsinfo.inquirer.net/breakingnews/nation/view/20080807-153247/SC-unfazed-by-MILF-threat-to-withdraw-from-peace-talks&#8221; target=”_blank”>SC</a></b><a href=”http://newsinfo.inquirer.net/breakingnews/nation/view/20080807-153247/SC-unfazed-by-MILF-threat-to-withdraw-from-peace-talks&#8221; mce_href=”http://newsinfo.inquirer.net/breakingnews/nation/view/20080807-153247/SC-unfazed-by-MILF-threat-to-withdraw-from-peace-talks&#8221; target=”_blank”>) </a><b><a href=”http://newsinfo.inquirer.net/breakingnews/nation/view/20080807-153247/SC-unfazed-by-MILF-threat-to-withdraw-from-peace-talks&#8221; mce_href=”http://newsinfo.inquirer.net/breakingnews/nation/view/20080807-153247/SC-unfazed-by-MILF-threat-to-withdraw-from-peace-talks&#8221; target=”_blank”>expressed no fear whatsoever of MILF’s threat to withdraw from peace talks</a></b>. AFP Chief General <b>Alexander Yano</b> confirmed that “<b><a href=”http://newsinfo.inquirer.net/breakingnews/nation/view/20080807-153248/AFP-chief-Armed-conflict-possible-if-deadline-not-met&#8221; mce_href=”http://newsinfo.inquirer.net/breakingnews/nation/view/20080807-153248/AFP-chief-Armed-conflict-possible-if-deadline-not-met&#8221; target=”_blank”>arm</a></b><b><a href=”http://newsinfo.inquirer.net/breakingnews/nation/view/20080807-153248/AFP-chief-Armed-conflict-possible-if-deadline-not-met&#8221; mce_href=”http://newsinfo.inquirer.net/breakingnews/nation/view/20080807-153248/AFP-chief-Armed-conflict-possible-if-deadline-not-met&#8221; target=”_blank”>ed conflict is possible if the deadline is not met</a></b>” while assuring that the situation is “<b>not that heated</b>”.</p> <p style=”text-align: left;” mce_style=”text-align: left;”>But if you look at it, “<i>according to North Cotabato Governor Jesus Sacdalan, three women were killed and two other civilians were wounded, while 82 houses were burned over the last two weeks in the nine remote villages in five towns of his province</i>.”</p> <p style=”text-align: left;” mce_style=”text-align: left;”>Taking this into consideration, plus the fact that these events started since the TRO was issued by the Supreme Court, is enough sign that we’re in for the difficult task of doing a balancing act. Peace on the one hand, and war on the other. As expected, it appears to be more complicated than we thought it would be.</p> <p style=”text-align: left;” mce_style=”text-align: left;”>There is a spark of hope, however. Press Secretary <b>Jesus Dureza</b> announced the good news that “<i>i</i><i>n the five barangay [villages] presently occupied [by the MILF], we have now established connection[s] on how
to resolve this peacefully…We are confident that not only the government but the MILF will help so we can resolve this particular issue</i>”.</p> <p style=”text-align: left;” mce_style=”text-align: left;”>Meanwhile, a <b><a href=”http://newsinfo.inquirer.net/breakingnews/nation/view/20080807-153253/Palace-GRP-MILF-ceasefire-body-meeting-on-N-Cotabato-row&#8221; mce_href=”http://newsinfo.inquirer.net/breakingnews/nation/view/20080807-153253/Palace-GRP-MILF-ceasefire-body-meeting-on-N-Cotabato-row&#8221; target=”_blank”>GRP-MILF ceasefire body meeting on North Cotabato has been set</a></b>. Members of the joint government-MILF coordinating committee on the cessation of hostilities (CCCH) is meeting <b>5pm Thursday </b>to hopefully come up with peaceful resolution to the tension in North Cotabato.</p> <p style=”text-align: left;” mce_style=”text-align: left;”>This is the part where I urge you to pray and hope for the best.</p> <p><img class=”alignleft” src=”http://signatures.mylivesignature.com/85704/rjmarmol/sig_1217605896.jpg&#8221; mce_src=”http://signatures.mylivesignature.com/85704/rjmarmol/sig_1217605896.jpg&#8221; border=”0″ alt=”” width=”181″ height=”38″ /></p>

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