Let’s Behave, Shall We?


Now, this is wrong. Very wrong. I’m not a Gloria fan myself but hey, I won’t do such a thing. Not because I’m an elitist (how can I be an elitist when I don’t even belong to the “elite” myself?) but because it is indecent, downright dirty and stupid. I mean, come on people! How many times have we seen such display of rudeness? This is not helping anybody. In fact, it is adding problems to our already problematic country. If you want to do protests on the streets, then fine, do it anytime you want but do not destroy, and spray-paint public property! I understand you don’t like PGMA, I don’t like her either. But hasn’t it occured to these people’s minds that this is but a waste of time and energy? If you want change, start with yourself, damn it! You want to have an immaculate president yet you can’t even express simple discontent in a “clean” and acceptable way? Come on.

Grow up youth of the Philippines! If it is in your hands that this country’s future lies, can you at least make us look forward to it?

Is this how you want the world to see us? So, you think throwing paint on a president’s tarpaulin would make any difference? Lower inflation? Reduce crime rate? Propel us into “first-world-ness”? Ha!

If it is change you want, make a radical one — one that starts with you. You. Me. Us. You want change? Why not start cleaning your own backyards to eradicate dengue once and for all? Why not study damn too hard, find an honorable job, vote wisely, stop bribing public officials and start reporting anomalies as they happen, educate your children in patriotism..and many other things. There’s actually nothing new in what I’m saying here. I believe all of these have been said before. Nobody just cares to listen. I know why. That’s because it’s a lot easier to blame our country’s misfortunes to political leaders. After all, they’ve got the power, right? Wrong. Darn wrong. This is a democratic country. They are sitting there now because we elected them — we’ve always had the power. I’m not saying, “hey, let’s take that power! it’s ours anyway..let’s unseat this oligarch!”. Where were we when the election happened? Who did we vote for? Were we vigilant enough? Were we wise enough to vote for the deserving? Or were we easily swayed by SWS surveys and thought “hey, since my candidate is at the tail end of the survey, might as well vote for someone who has a better chance of winning, so my vote won’t go to waste..” What?! What mentality. What attitude — this is definitely the Philippines’ biggest problem!

*Sigh*. You know what, after all is said and done, the fact remains that this is our country. And what we do to it will hurt us. Maybe you’re unaffected now. But I’m sure you will be. It’s only a matter of time. So, please. Let’s behave, shall we?

As to the President’s SONA (State of the Nation Address) scheduled on Monday, July 28, I’d like to listen to what she has to say. It may displease me, sure. But I still want to know what’s happening and what her administration is doing to arrest all these issues that seem to be endless. Listening to the SONA is not so much about whether you like the president or not, it’s about whether you care for the country or not. And caring, mind you, starts from listening.

2 responses to “Let’s Behave, Shall We?”

  1. How very true. Violence and graffiti do not change a country for the better. There are better outlets for testosterone, such as building houses for Gawad Kalinga !

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  2. @lionel, exactly! :) if they used their energy for something more meaningful like GK, their actions will speak for themselves — that they truly are concerned about our country and its citizens. stunts like this is such a waste of energy of the youth. their strength and enthusiasm coupled with idealism and vibrancy should be channeled toward something good, not spray-painting tarps..

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I’m RJ Marmol — writer, musician, and independent creator based in Manila.

I write songs, essays, and books about the messy overlap between money, overwhelm, creativity, identity, and rebuilding. Much of my work circles around what happens when life stops feeling manageable — and how we try to think clearly, make decisions, and keep moving anyway.

I’m also the author of Rebuilding Under Debt: Thinking Clearly When Everything Is a Blur, a nonfiction book published under Steady Hand Press. The paperback edition is listed under my full publishing name, Cecilia Regina Aquino Blanquera.

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HeyRJ is my sonic soul project. I create raw, minimalist-style and deeply personal music interpretations that feel like a late-night conversation with your truest self.

By blending lo-fi acoustic textures with poetic honesty, my work explores love, loss, grief, healing, and the quiet in-betweens of life. Each song is a letter — a journal entry — a gentle companion for when the world feels too loud or too quiet.

While my catalogue began with intimate cover renditions, my work is increasingly being shaped by original writing, drawing from years of poems, lived questions, and emotional survival.

“Stuck Home Syndrome” released on March 20, 2026 is my first original 20-track album written during a period when time felt compressed and days began to blur into each other. The songs came from sitting with thoughts that had nowhere else to go — unfiltered, repetitive, and sometimes uncomfortable. It’s a concept album that isn’t built around singles or polish. It’s closer to a continuous inner monologue, recorded with minimal production and very little ornamentation and meant to be listened to as one cohesive body of work. The goal wasn’t to resolve anything, only to document how it felt while it was happening.

On May 29, 2026 I released new original singles – “Rapturous”, “Uh Huh”, “Look At You”, “All That” and “Blew Print”. I continue to release both original and cover songs and intend to so for as long as I can so check back every once in a while — you might. just find something you’ll like.

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Rebuilding Under Debt: Thinking Clearly When Everything Is a Blur

A nonfiction book about what debt does to the mind — and how to begin functioning again when financial stress has made everything feel blurred, urgent, and overwhelming.

Rather than treating debt only as a financial math problem, the book explores the emotional and cognitive realities of financial distress: shame, decision fatigue, avoidance, panic, relationship strain, and the difficulty of making sound decisions while mentally depleted.

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